Agog Over Divorce Blogs

Short Articles Packed with Helpful Information

by Michael Heath

Blog is short for weblog. These website-based write-ups normally pack a lot of information in less space — i.e., 400-600 words as compared to a standard full-length article that spans 1000 words or more in length. For those in the throes of a failing marriage blogs can be useful in several ways.

Where to Start

We live in the Information Age. Thanks to personal devices linked to the internet, endless content is literally at our fingertips. Like anything new, a person facing the end of a marriage is almost certainly going to search the web to learn some things or to seek local matrimonial attorneys or mediators. Questions about the division of assets, alimony, or child custody may need answering. While legal advice discovered on the internet is no substitute for speaking directly to a lawyer, going online to gather information is a good start. Blogs offer content that is often direct and concise. Although lacking the minutiae an article can offer, they allow the reader enough to know whether they should seek further information. For example, someone may have heard of divorce arbitration but not know anything more about it. Reading a blog post or two on arbitration may provide enough background on this divorce method so they can decide whether to pursue additional information through articles, books, or consultation.

Blogs Can Be a Window

Many if not most family law firms and mediation office websites have a blog page. Reading their blogs can often reveal much to couples wanting a mediated divorce, as the firm’s focus usually shows up in the blog content. Do they write about the benefits of a less costly, more amicable end to a marriage? Or are the writings more focused on the legal maneuverings required of a hostile divorce? Some law offices may offer mediation but broadcast a litigation mindset through their posts. There are mediators who have a practice centered in business or real estate but will mediate a divorce when asked. It is critical to seek a law or mediation firm that is all in on the alternative dispute resolution process as it applies to divorce.

Reading from a website can also be an indicator of the professional character of a person or office. Do the articles appear smartly written or are they just lazy work with little relevance? When was the last posting? Someone who adds posts with regularity expresses regimentation and enthusiasm for their profession.

Going is Knowing  

The internet provides a rich amount of information for those wanting to explore the alternatives to divorce litigation. If a couple decides to negotiate the end of their marriage through a mediator or collaborative attorneys, they will begin that process with a consultation. Additional trips through the blogosphere can prepare a couple for such a session.