DIVORCE BLOG How to end your marriage without going to court... it's all in the book, The Courtless Divorce, and supplemental articles in this blog. TIPS FOR PARENTS Divorce is traumatic. It affects children and parents are responsible for doing their part to make the experience as least stressful as possible. Download this list and keep it handy. Read it often and follow the advice. It will be better for the kids, and for you.